Dating Dislikes

Dating dislikes are a personal thing that's for sure. The things one person loves someone for can be the cause of a ruined relationship in another case. There are though some common trends that we all share when going on a date. So here’s a list of the biggest turn offs in the world of dating…

Hygiene . The top of the list by far in the league of dating dislikes. It may sound obvious but in truth, it is often overlooked, especially by men. Turning up for a date doesn't just mean a quick rake of the hair and the straightening of a t-shirt. Remember, first impressions count and may be the only impression you leave.

Clothes are big dating dislikes. The wrong clothes that is. It is a case of dressing in the right outfit for the occasion. There is no point dressing in your very best if it is a casual lunch date, however for a romantic dinner somewhere nice you need to dress to impress. Once again, too tight, too short or too fashionable may leave you feeling out of place for the date and wishing you hadn't bothered. The most important thing to remember is to be comfortable.

Money . A big issue this one in the dating dislikes list. Too much chat about cash and you are out, too little ambition and you are out. Seriously, keep your cash conversations to a zero level and enjoy your date together. It can leave your date feeling very uncomfortable either way. If you are dating out of your financial zone then don't try and pretend as that will be fatal. Instead always keep to something affordable, after all, you are spending time with someone, not their bank balance.

Lying . People tell lies on dates, in fact most people do and this is a great dating dislike. They do this because they want to appear exciting and invigorating and interesting. People are usually seeking honesty and this is one of the basic building blocks of any new dating experience. If you tell lies at the beginning they will eventually get found out and when they do your partner will begin to wonder what else you might have lied about.

Getting drunk . This is one of the biggest mistakes to make on a date. The most promising dates can end up going nowhere simply because one of you ends up getting too drunk. Now 99% of the reason behind this is nerves. Many people are far better with a drink inside them than without. It's a relaxant, it calms nerves and fears and promotes a feeling of confidence. In that sense, a drink is good for dating, the problem is that it doesn't end there. If you are nervous you can end up drinking too much and making a fool of yourself.

So bear these things in mind when you have a hot date lined up, after all you really do want it to go well and then hopefully this date will lead to another!